dillon1000/react

[crud] Merge useResourceEffect into useEffect (#32205)

Merges the useResourceEffect API into useEffect while keeping the
underlying implementation the same. useResourceEffect will be removed in
the next diff.

To fork between behavior we rely on a `typeof` check for the updater or
destroy function in addition to the CRUD feature flag. This does now
have to be checked every time (instead of inlined statically like before
due to them being different hooks) which will incur some non-zero amount
(possibly negligble) of overhead for every effect.
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* #32206
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