dillon1000/react

Put render phase update change behind a flag (#18850)

In the new reconciler, I made a change to how render phase updates
work. (By render phase updates, I mean when a component updates
another component during its render phase. Or when a class component
updates itself during the render phase. It does not include when
a hook updates its own component during the render phase. Those have
their own semantics. So really I mean anything triggers the "`setState`
in render" warning.)

The old behavior is to give the update the same "thread" (expiration
time) as whatever is currently rendering. So if you call `setState` on a
component that happens later in the same render, it will flush during
that render. Ideally, we want to remove the special case and treat them
as if they came from an interleaved event.

Regardless, this pattern is not officially supported. This behavior is
only a fallback. The flag only exists until we can roll out the
`setState` warnning, since existing code might accidentally rely on the
current behavior.