dillon1000/react

Rename experimental useEvent to useEffectEvent (#25881)

We originally had grand plans for using this Event concept for more but
now it's only meant to be used in combination with effects.

It's an Event in the FRP terms, that is triggered from an Effect.
Technically it can also be from another function that itself is
triggered from an existing side-effect but that's kind of an advanced
case.

The canonical case is an effect that triggers an event:

```js
const onHappened = useEffectEvent(() => ...);
useEffect(() => {
  onHappened();
}, []);
```