dillon1000/react

Replace Implicit Options on SuspenseList with Explicit Options (#33424)

We want to change the defaults for `revealOrder` and `tail` on
SuspenseList. This is an intermediate step to allow experimental users
to upgrade.

To explicitly specify these options I added `revealOrder="independent"`
and `tail="visible"`.

I then added warnings if `undefined` or `null` is passed. You must now
always explicitly specify them. However, semantics are still preserved
for now until the next step.

We also want to change the rendering order of the `children` prop for
`revealOrder="backwards"`. As an intermediate step I first added
`revealOrder="unstable_legacy-backwards"` option. This will only be
temporary until all users can switch to the new `"backwards"` semantics
once we flip it in the next step.

I also clarified the types that the directional props requires iterable
children but not iterable inside of those. Rows with multiple items can
be modeled as explicit fragments.