dillon1000/react

Move string ref coercion to JSX runtime (#28473)

Based on:

- #28464

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This moves the entire string ref implementation out Fiber and into the
JSX runtime. The string is converted to a callback ref during element
creation. This is a subtle change in behavior, because it will have
already been converted to a callback ref if you access element.prop.ref
or element.ref. But this is only for Meta, because string refs are
disabled entirely in open source. And if it leads to an issue in
practice, the solution is to switch to a different ref type, which Meta
is going to do regardless.